A confident male plus-one for a wedding.

A wedding is not simply an evening event. It may begin with a ceremony, continue through reception drinks, photographs, speeches and a seated dinner, and end several hours later on the dance floor. Your first enquiry should therefore include the date, venue, invitation details, approximate schedule and the part of the celebration you would like to attend together.

Before the day, you can explain your relationship to the couple, the family members or colleagues you expect to meet and any personal questions you would prefer to handle discreetly. The introduction is agreed in advance and remains truthful. MR PRIVÉ does not claim to be a husband, long-term partner, colleague or family connection when that is not the case.

Dress code is considered from the actual invitation and venue rather than assumed. Morning dress, black tie, cocktail attire, a destination ceremony or a relaxed civil wedding each requires a different response. Arrival time, gifts, cloakroom, seating plan, dietary arrangements and transport between ceremony and reception can be included in the preparation.

Photographs deserve a separate decision. You choose whether shared pictures are welcome, limited to private group photographs or avoided altogether. The same applies to social-media posts, introductions to close family and participation in formal moments such as the receiving line, speeches or the first dance.

During dinner, MR PRIVÉ can contribute to conversation without taking over the table or presenting invented professional expertise. Familiar names, sensitive family history, languages and subjects to avoid can be discussed beforehand. A brief confidential video call is available so that communication style and expectations feel comfortable before confirmation.

The end of the booking is planned as carefully as the arrival. A driver, hotel, final train, separate departure or agreed extension should not be left ambiguous. Availability, fee, travel, accommodation, personal boundaries and all practical expenses are confirmed before the date becomes binding.

• Ceremony, reception and seated dinner
• Truthful introduction and family context
• Dress code, photographs and social-media boundaries
• Transport, departure and clear personal limits

A personal response is provided within 24 hours. Availability, fee, travel expenses, boundaries and all relevant arrangements are confirmed before a booking becomes binding.